Surviving success



When Success is not faced with common sense, it can touch aspects of our ego affecting our perception of reality.

By Moris Beracha


In some conversations it is common to raise the subject on how to face success. At first this question surprises me because one might think that people's curiosity focuses more on how to deal with pain. Then I understood that success is a desire that all human beings have. You can think of it as the positive culmination of a task or wish come true; the problem begins when success affects our ego.


It is very common to see us as humans how well we can cope with problems but it is also common to see how difficult it is for us to deal with success. As it has been said "Nothing corrupts a person more than power"

When success is not faced with common sense, it can touch aspects of our ego affecting our perception of reality. Success ascends with power, which is the ability to do things that other people cannot do.

Knowing how to channel this kind of faculty and avoid falling into arrogance and pride, which are the two negative manifestations of the ego, are fundamental to avoid losing the focus on what is the real substance of things.

Attachments do not come from having goods of fortune, but from the way our mind reacts to them.

We can participate in abundance as long as we have the ability to see that all these things do not have a real or true essence. They may well arrive or leave, the important thing is our attitude towards them.

Life is a way of daily teaching in which attachment to negative values ​​slows the expansion of our mind and can adversely affect those around us and ourselves.
Power sometimes blinds and those who brag about it may lose the sense of right and wrong. Fame, wealth, showiness may suddenly cease to exist, leaving in the affected mind a ruined spirituality.


Success is appreciated but also shared. One way to do this is by controlling the ego and understanding success as the possibility of expanding the positive thing in us towards others. It is the only way to survive.
  

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